Maybe you’re in a long-term relationship and your libido as a couple has taken a dip (which is so normal, BTW). Or maybe you and your new boo are still exploring all of the different ways to connect in the bedroom. Or maybe you’re in your single era and your solo sessions just aren’t hitting the spot like they used to (been there!).

No matter what your sexual situation is, bringing a sex toy to your next anything-but-clothes party is a surefire way to crank up the heat. Research shows that one way people can improve their romantic relationships is by experiencing something new together. Sure, it could be a new restaurant—or how about a new vibrating wand?

More specifically, consider the Trojan Duet 2-in-1 Vibrating Massager + Ring. It’s like if a tension ring and a G-spot vibrator had the hottest headboard-banging sex and made a baby. This unique, tantalizing toy features a dual-ended shape with two motors and 10 different vibration speeds and patterns. So, whether you like it strong and consistent, soft and fluttery or something in between, you’ll find your perfect rhythm. And it’s USB rechargeable (no batteries here!) and water-resistant for endless good vibes.

Duet 2-in-1 Vibrating Massager + Ring, Trojan

Price: $60 at Shoppers Drug Mart

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Another reason to add this buzzy new vibrator to your cart? It feels ah-mazing both inside and outside your body, thanks to the high-quality soft-touch silicone that’s smooth and flexible. Just pair it with some water-based lube for the ultimate comfort during coupled or solo play.

But even if you’re just enjoying a good ol’ spicy self-care session in the comfort of your bedroom, the ring end of the toy can be used to hold it in place (because there is nothing more lady boner-killing than trying to manoeuvre a slippery toy while you’re this close to an orgasm).