Okay, so technically it’s just one date idea, and it’s not even at night, but whatever…Taylor Swift is, as with all else, killing it with the whole “dating Calvin Harris” thing, and it’s obviously in our best interest to take careful notes. So, how can we date like Taylor?

1. An inflatable swan is never a bad idea.

Nothing bonds a new couple like a slow bob on an avian blow up. 

2. Little black bikinis  > little black dresses

Taylor paired hers with sweet black shades. 

3. Hire a photographer to document your date

Unless Calvin brought along the world’s longest selfie stick? 

4. Danger will bring you closer together

Especially when you teeter on the terrifying drop off that is the edge of an infinity pool.

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