Not only is Ashley Graham a model, an activist, a lingerie designer for Addition Elle, and arguably the reigning champ of the Insta bikini pic, but she’s also the sort of super-warm, super-wise person that you just know gives great advice.

Which is why the video below exists, for which the synopsis should read: The ELLE team bring their most pressing person issues to our former cover star, and she both solves them and makes us feel really good about ourselves.