6 signs your sweetheart has swayed.
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Your significant other calls: He's working late at the office again. It's the third time this week and although your heart wants to commend him for burning the midnight oil, your gut is telling you something different. Maybe it's just silly suspicions, but what if it isn't? ELLECanada.com chats with Tasha Cunningham a leading infidelity expert and CEO of www.DontDateHimGirl.com to give us the top 6 warning signs your man may be cheating on you.
1. Cyberspace courtship: Technology and the internet have made it incredibly easy to cheat. says Cunningham. If your guy is particularly secretive with his email, or tends to spend more than 4 or more non-work related hours on the internet a day in chat rooms, websites or webcams, you may want investigate further.
2. Critical mass: If your guy suddenly finds fault with every move you make, he may be straying. According to Cunnigham, if he's always telling you to hit the gym, wear different clothes, or alter yourself in ways to please him, it's a sign he's unhappy in the relationship and therefore prone to cheat. If your beau is overly critical you have to tell him how much that hurts you, she says. If the problems continue to persist after that, consider couples counseling if you want to save the relationship.
3. "I've got plans.": If this is becoming a regular statement every time Friday rolls around, you may want to salute that red flag. The truth of the matter is this: If he's into you, he's going to want to be with you; but, if he's telling you more and more frequently that he wants a night out with "the guys" it could be a sign that something is amiss. The best way to deal with it? Ask him directly, recommends Cunningham. If he gives you a vague answer or dismisses the subject altogether, you know something isn't right.
