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DEAR JANN: I'm 19 years old and in love with my boyfriend of two years. He lives in another province, as I am away at school. I work in a tanning salon, and there is a guy who comes in a few times a week. He has a girlfriend, but the physical attraction between us is overwhelming. I fantasize about him a lot. Should I just say "I only live once" and give in to the temptation of being with him or should I forget about him? TEMPTED</b>
DEAR TEMPTED</b>: For one thing, you're not in love; you're 19. If you were in love, you wouldn't be thinking about bedding some guy from a tanning salon...a tanning salon??? What the hell kind of guy goes to a tanning salon anyway? I'd suggest that you stick to fantasies -- there's no harm in that, but there is harm in getting a deadly sexually transmitted disease, and there is harm in giving in to guys you hardly know. Never mess around with someone who is taken -- never! If you do, it shall be done to you somewhere down the road.
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