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10 signs he's into you

These telltale signs will let you know that he's interested in you!

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Jennifer Weatherhead
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Ever wonder if the cute guy at your office is flirting with you or just being Mr. Nice Guy? Sometimes the signals guys send can leave us totally confused, but chances are if he's showing most of these signs below, then you have yourself an admirer!

1. Eye contact If he's looking straight into your eyes every time you talk it's probably not because you have a fallen eyelash or your mascara is running. Steady eye contact shows he's completely focused on you and really listening to what you have to say.

2. Leaning into you When there's no attraction between two people, they keep a safe distance between their bodies. But if you find your suspected crush leaning in closer when you have a one on one conversation it's a sign he's into you and wants to get closer.

3. The magic touch Gentle touches on the arm or back are a sure sign a guy's into you unless he's just a touchy-feely guy with just about everyone. Touching shows intimacy and that's what he's looking for, so the next time your hands brush at the photocopier remember he could be sending you a sign.

4. Funny to meet you here Coincidence it may be -- but when a guy just happens to keep showing up at places you hang out (and you hadn't seen him there until recently) it's probably not an accident. Take advantage and strike up a conversation to find out what's up.

5. You're oh-so funny You may think you have a great sense of humour and tell awesome jokes, but normally you don't even get a snicker out of your friends with your jokes. But this one guy loves them and laughs every time -- he could be crushing on you and your funny bone.

6. His friends know about you Maybe your admirer is just an acquaintance, so chances are you don't know his friends too well. But if his friends seem to know about you and your likes/dislikes, it means he's been talking about you -- a lot.

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COMMENTS

  • getta
    Published:
    2009-08-24 2:10 PM

    groovy man
  • Matt
    Published:
    2009-08-24 10:19 AM

    As a guy, I have to say that this is pretty accurate. Nice work.
  • Steve
    Published:
    2009-08-24 1:58 AM

    thanks, im always trying to get girls to notice me, ive been single for a while, perhaps im a bit fuzzy on the signs im not giving to women, therefore not noticing if im interested or not.
  • Jamie
    Published:
    2009-07-20 1:22 AM

    over- well first you have to ask yourself if you like him back,if the answer is no you should keep treating him like usual but do your best to make it clear that you're not interested,send this message across using jokes if you want. keep it airy and don't try something drastic that could end badly . but if however you do like him back, please don't cheat around your bf!!! i guess you should make it known and avoid hurting him more than is needed. good luck!
  • Erika
    Published:
    2009-06-30 10:49 AM

    thanks because this realy helped i had a firend that was a boy and now he is my boyfriend thanks to this i asked him if he likes me and he said "yes" so now we been going out for almost 2 to 3 monthes now
  • over
    Published:
    2009-06-15 11:01 PM

    Ok I have this guy friend who is my best friend and I think he might like me he is really cute and sweet but I don't want to ruin the relationship and plus I have a bf :p what should I Do? :a
  • Aims
    Published:
    2009-06-08 1:25 AM

    Delia - My b/f of a year and half told me recently that what attracted him even more was that I held my ground and wanted to wait... if he's really into you he would be there wiether or not you gave him the occasional romp.
  • Jessiiie
    Published:
    2009-05-31 4:55 PM

    how do u get him to ask you out when ur 4 suuree 100% sure he likes you???
  • aurora
    Published:
    2009-05-29 8:58 AM

    Delia - run away from him immediately! He's just not that into you if he doesn't see you as often as he can. Trust me.
  • Heeeyiiiah
    Published:
    2009-05-28 8:24 PM

    I still dont really know if he likes me...I think he does
  • Darlene
    Published:
    2009-05-28 6:20 PM

    If you provide the romp, he won't respect you at all. For men, it's about respect.
  • Darlene
    Published:
    2009-05-28 6:19 PM

    Well, if you provide the occasional romp, why should he commit to you? You are worthy of much more than that.
  • not telling
    Published:
    2009-05-25 7:29 PM

    Ok well he is showing 4 of those signs, but has a gf and is too afraid to dump her, i really like him. what do i do??
  • delia
    Published:
    2009-05-19 4:40 PM

    okay, so all the signs are he's into you, BUT, he does not want to commit, or be in a relationship - he only want the occasional romp.... what's that say????
  • someone
    Published:
    2009-05-06 6:54 PM

    I think you may be right!thx!
  • Anonymous
    Published:
    2009-05-05 6:42 PM

    If he asked you out that's pretty clear...I'd say the distance is probably to keep some professionalism at the office
  • Jess
    Published:
    2009-04-21 7:42 PM

    What about when he asks you out, but keeps his distance? That kind of sends a mixed signal.
  • Ashley
    Published:
    2009-03-17 12:29 PM

    Very good advice to look for :)
  • Kelly M.
    Published:
    2009-02-21 6:30 PM

    Wow! I wish I had these tips when I was in high school. A guy was giving me these signs and I decided to play along. And it tu
    s out that we fell in love and that guy became my wonderful husband!
  • Matt
    Published:
    2009-02-18 8:42 PM

    Lol. Going to have to get this to my crush as soon as possible. :D She's probably reading this and thinking the same thing
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