So you're going out for dinner with a guy you've never met. Jitters aside, what are some valuable dating rules to keep in mind? ELLE Canada gives you our best tips ...
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You're all set. You have the outfit, the gloss, the smile and the attitude. Your blind-date jitters are in check as you slip on your stilettos and prepare to leave for the night. But, before you start dreaming of that good-night kiss, take a quick scan of our handy advice on dating safety rules. With the help of Toronto-based sexuality and relationship coach Dr. Rebecca Rosenblat, we give you some tips to remember before you head out to meet your mystery man!
Before the date
Ask whoever set you up on the date why they think you are a good match. “The answer needs to be more than 'you're both single,'” explains Rosenblat. Things like sharing similar interests (animals, cooking, reading), working in the same field, or having like personality traits are good reasons to be set up.
Pick a safe place
"Think safety first and arrange to meet in a public place that is well lit and has a good number of people around," says Rosenblat. Try a cool, casual pizza joint, a laid-back café, or a popular java spot. A little noise is good -- it saves you from those awkward quiet moments.
Transportation
Make sure you have your own way home. You can cut loose when you feel like it, and your date doesn't have to drive you home. "Be wary of letting your date escort you to your way of transportation," cautions Rosenblat. Remember, you don't know them that well yet!
The alcohol factor
Watch your alcohol intake, as well as your date's intake. You need to be clear-headed to make rational decisions should you need to. The last thing you want is the both of you passing out on the couches in the bar lounge.
More key safety tips for blind dates on the next page
