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Ask Susan: Looking for love
Intuitive counsellor to the jet-set fashion and music crowd, Susan King is always ready to offer her inspired insights.
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Dear Susan: I recently broke up with an on-again, off-again boyfriend of two years. There were many reasons: he would often put me down, but the biggest trouble was that he never told me about his huge debt. The problem is that before I knew him, I got to know his boss and had a real connection with him. I didn't pursue it because this man was in a relationship at the time. Now I'm single, and so is this man. I'm wondering if I should try to start something. Curious
Dear Curious: I think you're not sure if you're on your head or your feet. Despite what many women think, men like to be the hunters -- it's part of their psyche. If this man wanted you, he would have come looking for you. He could easily find where you are and how to get in touch with you. You're in love with the idea of being in love. I don't think this man will be a long-term partner for you. You're a little vulnerable right now and alone, but it won't last. I see a new job and new relationship for you next year. I feel that there will be talk of going on vacation to Mexico, and something special will happen around your birthday that will fill you with joy.
Dear Susan: I was in a three-year relationship with a man who I thought was The One. We had our problems, and I broke it off. I started dating again but kept thinking of my ex. It has been four months since I dumped the last guy I dated. I've tried to get in touch with my ex, but he won't return my calls. I miss him dearly. I'm trying to let go and move on, but my heart won't let me. Can you offer any advice? Broken-hearted
Dear Broken-hearted: Your ex was -- and is -- stubborn, so you shouldn't be surprised that he's not returning your calls. He was also quite introverted and found it difficult to express his emotions, right? You broke it off not because you wanted to but because you were hoping that he would express his undying love for you and all would be well. You took a risk, which was very brave of you. Your inner self told you that this was not right for you! Now you're afraid and wish you had never done it, but you did the right thing. There is someone out there for you. Before the end of this year, I feel that you will meet someone. It will be when snow is on the ground and it's cold, and this person will be sporty and a good listener. So look forward, not back -- there is a new dawn ahead for you.
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