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What makes a relationship healthy?
Good sex or no sex: The verdict.
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DEAR JANN: First, I just want to say you're an amazing artist and I love all your songs! Your musical lyrics are so moving, and I have been able to relate to them. Thank you! So my dilemma: I have been married to my husband for three years. He is a good, caring man, but I don't feel passionate about him anymore. I fell in love with his character but was never really physically attracted to him. SEXED OUT
Dear Sexed Out: You need to go get counselling. Honestly, it's a place to start, and maybe you'll be able to figure out where the problem lies. It's very easy to get into a rut when it comes to intimacy. Lust is something that you have to work on. Falling in love with someone is involuntary. Staying in love, being in love and being in a relationship are voluntary. You're going to have ups and downs for sure in any marriage, but don't lose faith just yet. There could be some very simple solution to what is going on with you. I can't believe you married someone you were not physically attracted to at all; I just can't. If he is a good man, then let him be a good man and at least give him the benefit of the doubt. Try to find the catalyst to all of this. Please keep trying; it'll be well worth it either way.
Send your questions to:
askjann@ellecanada.com
Photo courtesy of Norbert Mayer
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