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Brush up on your table manners and review grandma's recipes because the latest trend in singles events will put your culinary confidence to the test.

By Marilisa Racco

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The classes at Aphrodite are broken down by age group and are categorized for straight, gay and lesbian singles. (They are the first ones to offer this service to the gay and lesbian communities.) Classes range from preparing gourmet hors d'oeuvres to full family-style dinners, and participants are put into groups of six, each with their own recipe to follow. The one constant: once the stoves are off everyone mingles over food and wine, and chats up the hottie of their choice.

At the end of any given evening, whether it's a class at Aphrodite or a sit-down meal organized through Dinnerworks, a service that arranges dinners for groups of 8, 10, 12 or 24 singles, the organizer is always available afterwards to play Cupid.

"If anybody wants to speak to someone and they didn't get the opportunity to do so at the dinner, they come to us and we help facilitate that connection," says Susan Kates, president of Dinnerworks, which operates in Toronto, Ottawa and Vancouver. "They can send us an e-mail and we will help get the message to the other party. This way there's no awkwardness at the end of the night."

Organizers may try to minimize bruised egos, but social circles run deep, and wide. "Six degrees of separation seems to happen quite a bit at Dinnerworks dinners," Ms. Kates offers. In her case, this has resulted in people reconnecting with old high school chums or learning that they live within a few blocks of one another.

For others, it hasn't been quite so charming. "Once we had a woman come in late for an event," Mr. Parfitt recalls. "When she looked around she turned completely white. It turned out that her ex, who she had literally just finished divorcing, was there."

Mr. Iozzo had a similar experience. "At the first event I attended two of the ten women there knew me. And one of them had recently traveled to Miami with my ex." Perhaps some dirty secrets had been leaked.

"The reality is, most of the 20-to-35 age group lives in a certain neighbourhood of Toronto, and the bulk of it is within a two-and-a-half kilometer radius of King and Spadina."

Address notwithstanding, many people welcome the opportunity to make new friends, even if there isn't a love connection on the horizon. "It's a great way to be social, whether you meet a guy or not," says Ashley Lauren, 26, a hairstylist and regular Aphrodite attendee. "I'm hooked." She may even be in love.



Get cookin' with these classes!

Aphrodite Cooks: Cooking classes for straight, gay and lesbian singles
416-792-3212 aphroditecooks.com

Dinnerworks: Brings together groups of like-minded singles for sit-down dinners.
416-483-1312 dinnerworks.ca

FastLife.ca: Offers a range of speed dating events, including the new Brunch Club and Supper Club.
416-840-9946 fastlife.ca

It's Just Lunch: Dating service that organizes lunch, brunch or after work drinks for busy professionals in Toronto, Calgary, Edmonton and Vancouver
888-300-9500 itsjustlunch.com

Meet Market Adventures: A wide range of singles events including Sushi Making, Thai Cooking and Gourmet Chef Cooking & Wine Night in major cities across Canada
800-239-0542 meetmarketadventures.com

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