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Are you a giver or taker in bed?

Grab a pen and keep score to find out whether you give, take, or lie somewhere in between.

By Renee Sutherland

6. You've just had an amazing lovemaking session that ended with you having an incredible orgasm, but your man is still ready to go. You're exhausted and just want to go to sleep. You:
A) Go for another five minutes and hope that's all it'll take. After all, if he doesn't climax, your orgasm doesn't count for much. (3)
B) Tell him how sexy it would be if he finished himself off. (2)
C) Tell him how fantastic that was then roll over, hoping he'll do the same. (1)

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7. The words you would use to best describe your sex life are:
A) "I treat my man like a king and it pays off -- seeing him so turned on is the biggest turn-on for me." (3)
B) "Last night he did that thing that drives me crazy then I did that thing that drives him crazy! We're so lucky." (2)
C) "I'm so spoiled, my man always knows how to bring me to climax and he always does just what I like." (1)

8. When it comes to pleasing your husband, most of the time you:
A) Make sure he pleasures you first then reciprocate. Besides, it's only polite. (2)
B) Don't wait to be asked but go straight to work. You get what you give, right? (3)
C) Feel guilty. It's not that you don't like making him happy -- it's just that, well, it's a lot of work and you've got a big day tomorrow. (1)

9. One night, after a few glasses of wine, your husband confides a bizarre sexual fantasy. It's not something that you really want to make happen, but you love him and he's always willing to make your fantasies a reality. You:
A) Let him know how you feel but add that you're willing to participate because he's done the same for you. (2)
B) Tell him straight out that it's not something you're ever going to do and that he needs to come up with something else. (1)
C) Go along for the ride and just hope it doesn't take all night. (3)

10. All week you've been looking forward to a romantic dinner, cocktails on the town and then a night of mad sex. Unfortunately, your hubby has to work late and your night out has to be postponed. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you:
A) Make yourself a martini and wait up until he gets home, wearing nothing but a come-hither look on your face. (3)
B) Wait for him to come home then let him know how disappointed you are and how he'll need to make it up to you. (2)
C) Have dinner alone then pleasure yourself and fall asleep before he gets home. A girl's gotta look after herself, right? (1)

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