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Relationships: Text message etiquette
Like it or not, text messaging is the new way to flirt. Learn how to navigate the virtual playing field with these tips and tricks.
By Larissa Primeau
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Rule #1: Don't text at any hour of the night
You wouldn't necessarily call someone at midnight, so don't text, either. Cell phones still ring when a text message is received so be respectful of what that person's lifestyle is. A text on a random Wednesday night at 2am isn't cool …it makes you look needy and inconsiderate.
Rule #2: Watch your tone
Like email, your inflection on text can be read wrong. Whether you're trying to flirt or find out if the receiver is really that into you, opt for this one general tip: Don't say anything over text that you wouldn't say in person. Texting is meant to be fun and flirty, so save your little missives for cute quips and witticisms. Avoid overly racy comments unless you've been nudged on the other side first. Nothing says "L8tr" faster than a text that's totally inappropriate to repeat out loud.
Rule #3: Don't drink and text
This one pretty much speaks for itself. Alcohol and messaging is a cocktail headed for disaster. True, a lot of us do it, but if you're totally off your chain and sending messages that are going to embarrass you later, leave your cell at home. You'll thank yourself in the morning. As for the 'booty call' (and, come on, we know you've done it), pick up the phone and dial. A real voice is sure to get that person the mood even more.
Rule #4: Don't overdo it
Don't bombard someone with a million texts. Like instant messaging, know when to end an exchange. We're all busy people and it can make you look obsessive even though that may not have been your intention.
Rule #5: Don't break up with someone over text or deal with any other serious issues for that matter.
Texting does not replace human interaction no matter how much you wish it could. Having a fight with your significant other? Don't deal blows via text, call and fix your issues face-to-face. By the time you finish typing the message anyway you could already be enjoying the thrills of a make-up session.
Get the dirt on a booty call breakdown here
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